To those who struggling . . .

 . . . with something.


I just felt an instant urge to give an extra thought to people who struggles with small or big things in their life.
We all go through difficult times, some more than others. Some people are open about it, others are not. Some people hide it well, pretending everything is fine, while in the reality: From the inside out - they are torn apart. Nobody knows.

Many of us 'suffer' in silence, never bother telling anyone - because we don't want to be a burden or a pin in the side. Many of us keeps telling ourselves the bitter lie we force us to believe: ''It will be alright'', I don't have a problem, I don't need help. All I need is just some sleep, a vacation, a drink, a night on the town. . . .
We hide in a dark corner, away from people, away from life. We don't want to be a burden.

For various reasons we have our things. I do to. Mostly I'm open with my things, but not with everything. Because it's hard to talk about feelings. You don't know how people will react to it, what will they think? Will they think and treat you differently if they knew everything? Or will it be a relief, just to let everything go and stop worrying?
I love to believe the last thing is the correct answer, but I can't say I will lead by example there.  

Sometimes I wish I could be there for everyone. Just be there, give a hug, cook waffles and make a cup of tea and be the friend who can lift the spirit for just a moment. We don't have to talk or do anything in fact. Would just love to be there to show them that - they are not alone in this world. People loves you.
I would love to be that friend. I know my energy level is not inexhaustible, and I will get tired, I admit - but I would love to keep it going as long as possible, non the less.

My point with this post was just that :  I think of you today. I have many people close to me who could need a extra hug from time to time. And I just want you to know that - I really care for you and want you to be happy. That's all I want - people close to me to be happy, calm and at peace. 
I think of you today, and though we don't always talk or see each other regularly, just know that time is precious, time is free: I have time. 

I love you, and remember: I will always find and see the good things in you, if you want it or not. 


2 kommentarer

Søtmonsen :))

20.03.2017 kl.19:12

Klem til deg fra meg :) <3


20.03.2017 kl.19:17

Klem igjen til deg !:)

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